When
Dave Feldman and his two siblings sat down with their aging parents to
have, as he described it, “the life decisions kind of conversation all
families need to have,” the question was raised: Should they remain in
their home?
Mr. Feldman’s parents, Lawrence, now 89, and Enid, 85, are retired schoolteachers. At
the time of the conversation two years ago, they had been living in a
two-bedroom apartment in Long Beach, N.Y., for nearly 15 years. The
elder Mr. Feldman was becoming reliant on a motorized scooter.
“Mom
said it might be nice if they could be somewhere where they could
accommodate Dad,” his son said. “He said, ‘No, I want to stay home.’ ”
In the parlance of elder care,
the Feldmans were choosing to “age in place.” For them to do so, the
family realized after subsequent discussions, modifications would have
to be made to their cramped, cluttered apartment. They turned to a
senior mover — someone skilled at helping older adults downsize to
smooth the transition to a smaller home or a senior living facility, or,
in this case, to stay put.
Studies
by AARP and others consistently show that a significant majority of
older adults want to remain in their homes as long as possible. On
balance, public health and elder care professionals say that is a
positive trend.
“Independence
has become the gold standard for successful aging,” said Kali Thomas,
an aging-in-place specialist and assistant professor at Brown
University’s School of Public Health. “It’s a worthy goal to choose.”
But
she cautions, it is not one easily achieved. Many older people have
health problems or economic issues that force them to remain at homes
where the responsibilities for maintenance can be overwhelming — a
situation that, she said, has been called “stuck in place.”
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